Attraction Layer Cake

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Attraction Layer Cake

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Black Grey Orchid Pink Red Crimson A B C D E 0 1 2 3 4 5 6 ➕ Select your own piece

Attraction type

Black – Aromantic asexuality

No sexual or romantic attraction, only platonic or æsthetic attraction.

Grey – Romantic asexuality

Open to romance, certain forms of touch, and deep emotional bonds, but not interested in sexual relations.

Orchid – Tertiary sexuality

Does not experience sexual attraction, but comfortable having sexual relations for distinct purposes (child bearing, pleasing their partners, etc.)

Pink – Secondary sexuality

Romantic, platonic and æsthetic attraction are established easily. Sexual attraction develops over the course of relationships, but not immediately.

Red – Primary sexuality

Sexual attraction exists immediately, and may or may not be acted upon. However other components are essential to the relationship, such as bonding or companionship.

Crimson – Aromantic sexuality

The purpose of relationships is primarily sexuality. Romance is not specifically desired.

Relationship type

A – Strictly monogamous

Only mate with one person at a time with the goal of developing singular life-long partnership.

B – Primarily monogamous

Desires monogamous relationships first and foremost, but willing to explore polyamorous relationships for the happiness of their partner or other reasons.

C – No preference

Willing to explore polyamory or monogamy on a case by case basis depending on the dynamics desired by the partners involved.

D – Primarily polyamorous

Desires polyamorous relationships first and foremost, but willing to explore monogamy for the happiness of their partner or other reasons.

E – Strictly polyamorous

Desires different simultaneous relationships with different partners in order to meet different needs or freely express attraction to multiple individuals.

Orientation type

0 – Exclusively heterosexual

Attracted exclusively to a gender(s) different than one's own.

1 – Predominantly heterosexual

Mostly attracted to a gender(s) different than one's own.

2 – Slightly heterosexual

Prefers partners whose gender(s) is different than one's own, but also attracted to people of the same gender.

3 – Bisexual / Pansexual

Attraction is not influenced by gender, or is attracted to different genders more or less equally.

4 – Slightly homosexual

Prefers partners whose gender matches one's own, but also attracted to people of different gender(s).

5 – Predominantly homosexual

Mostly attracted to people whose gender matches one's own.

6 – Exclusively homosexual

Exclusively attracted to people whose gender matches one's own.

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